To wear this babydoll, put it on over your body and adjust the underwired demi cups for a perfect fit. Then, wear the elasticized lace - waist thong that comes with it. When it comes to cleaning, remember to hand wash it gently to protect the embroidered details. Don't use harsh detergents. After washing, let it drip dry instead of using a dryer, as high heat may damage the fabric and the embroidery. Also, check the sizing tab above before purchasing to ensure you get the right size.